Naturally dominant, I like the world at my feet, but I also know the joy and strength of submission.

Naturally kinky, I passionately believe that what our society views as an alternative and unwholesome if not perverted sexuality is actually the way we were meant to be: we are creatures who seek endorphin rushes, we are beings who push everything to the limit given the chance.

Naturally sexy and proud of it, it's one of the greatest driving forces in nature and I embrace it wholeheartedly. Fun loving, sometimes my work allows me to be lighthearted and to laugh, other times, I have to be serious and thoroughly professional.

Naturally a therapist I know what's going on in your mind, I can read you like a book, I can see your problems and fears, I can see how to change them and how to make you better, happier. And of course, I can see when you're enjoying yourself, although, in kink, the word 'enjoy' sometimes doesn't really cover it, does it?

I don't suffer fools and I don't accept excuses. I push myself hard in this rich and wonderful world to get all from it that I can, and I expect my subjects to do the same.

Do less than your best and you will be letting me down.

I'm tall, 5' 10", be warned, and with 5" heels (my usual) I can be quite a challenge to your stature. I'm strong too, as I keep fit and lead a very active life. Softly spoken though, I don't shout, I find I don't need to, usually.

I have worked as a chartered professional in clinical services for 12 years, but realised, when I was offered a consultancy, that for me, a nine-to-five was a living death. I went on my own personal journey, met many interesting people, found myself in some very interesting circumstances and narrowly escaped death once or twice. All essentials, in my opinion, for a fulfilled life in this complicated world.

I thoroughly enjoy life now (mostly...) and choose to work as a freelance professional in fetish and sexuality. There are so few who can truly help those suffering from fetish, whether as therapy or simply by making enough of the the fantasies come true to keep them from becoming obsessional or crippling. 'Kink-friendly' doesn't really cover it, I live it, I've been there, done it and I'm just starting to write the book!