You will only be reading these words if you have a fetish of some sort, whether sexual, bdsm, spanking or disciplinary. You will probably have a high sex drive and concepts of relationship based on power exchange, D/s or slavery. You probably, but not necessarily, sexualise pain or humiliation, given or received.

Pro-Domme, switch and pro-submissive sessions

You may be looking for an enjoyable session, time out from the real world. You may be on some deep exploration of the psyche, wanting to know what kink, and your kink, is all about. Or you may be looking for something very specific: deep role play, running a scenario or fantasy that is important to you.

I'm not going to shout at you, I'm not going to call you a worm, and I'm not going to beat the soul out of you, at least, not without good reason. There are plenty of pro-Dommes who will do just that. My manner is much more gentle, nurturing, loving, even. But I don't suffer fools, I can be utterly ruthless when it is needed, and I can push you, hard. Without ever raising my voice.

And, of course, because I switch and sub, you can push me hard, or simply enjoy my company and my submission. But I do ask that you show me the respect I show for my submissive subjects too.

Therapy and life coaching

You may have problems you want to fix, you may feel a little adrift and be seeking some guidance. Fetish can easily lead to almost obsessive fantasy if it is not dealt with in some way, while even at much lower levels, it can cause rifts in marriage, problems with sexual relations, loss of personal confidence and lack of focus at work.

As a qualified and experienced therapist, I can help you with fetish or sex related problems, and I can help you reconcile various personal issues. I use both talking and physical therapies, including endorphin therapy, my specialist subject, of course. And I do work with women and couples as well as men.

As a qualified and demanding life coach, I can help you overcome confidence issues, dating problems, fears, help you move into the kink scene or guide you on successful relationships. With or without the aid of a cane and strong doses of dominance.

There are around 50 pages to this site. Please look through it thoroughly if you are interested in working with me. The web site is all my own work, so the words on it can be trusted: it is the real me :)